Defining Purpose

I could not define purpose or goal of my life in last few days because I couldn't concentrate on it.But I have plan for my next two months;I have to appear in Civil Services exam and want to prepare for it.But only two months are left for my studies.So I think I should concentrate only on my studies instead of defining my life purpose.As this will also pave the way for my future plannings.If I get pass the exam ,it will be a great achievement.

So now I am to make a successful study plan.So that I'll be able to cover up my studies within two months.I don't want to study everything blindly rather selective study would be advisable.

Alongwith study planning,I'll have to keep an eye on my health ,my mood,my time management;because all these factors affect an effective study plan.I do not have consistency in my mood ,so It will be a bit difficult to concentrate my mind on studies.Health is also in our hands if we want to live healthy;only we have to remember our concern about it.Time management will be a bit tough to tackle,as this is the real culprit in our success.Achieving good time management skills isn't that easy.

Most of the self-help gurus tell us to keep a journal to get success in your plans.Now I think,it may consist of a daily planner as well as a progress report to get focused.

Now my next plan is to make an applicable study schedule.It will include not only study strategies suitable with my nature but also a review of study material;I mean what I'm gonna study in next days.Both will go side by side.Which skills I need to acquire for getting pass the exam also needs to ponder,like, to sharpen my writing skills & how to attempt paper in examination hall are most important things to achieve success.

So,that's it.I think to achieve big goals we should divide them in chunks.As these days, most important thing for me is to concentrate my studies,if I indulge in making long term plannings ,that will only make me tense.When I'll finish my exams I'll have sufficient time to think for my future.

Am I right in my plans?

I want to change my life!

This blog is not going to teach anyone what to do or how to do.So what am I going to do here?Actually,there's already loads of stuff on the web to help us get success but here I want to apply the suggestions of self help gurus on myself ,and want to publish my self-experiments in this blog.

I have been following some self-help blogs & authors to get instant information for bringing success & happiness in my life.I know that I'm not alone in this practice;hundreds of self improvement sites and books are the proof of it.But very often I wonder that how much people have got success through these ready made tips?If they got success then of course such blogs are a boon.If they don't ,then where the problem lies?

Everyone wants to change oneself either to inspire people or to be successful in life.Whatever it may be,bringing change is not that easy; in case we don't struggle for it.But struggling for what? Are there any set rules to bring charm,beauty & prosperity in our lives? I think, they are.Then why do we fail,if we follow them? What are those rules? Have anybody tested them? Are they applicable in real life or mere statements?If there are applicable rules to make our life as we desire then why don't everybody gets same success?I want to get all the questions answered by self experiments.

I have spent a lot of time on internet to find some surefire tips to change my life.There's loads of stuff for this purpose.Whenever I read the people telling their stories of self-change ,I envy them.Sometimes ,I try to apply those tips but leave the way after few trials due to my inconsistent nature.But I want to change my life in any way ; so ,I think I'll have to work on them to get success.But how to start the process and track my progress? Most of the self development authors advise to keep a journal for record.But writing takes a lot of time.So I thought to start this blog to keep track of my activities.I hope blogging will not only work for a diary for me but also give me a sense of purpose.

But what am I going to experiment? What are my goals ? Who'll be my mentor? As I mentioned earlier,I spent lot of time in surfing net for the sake of getting success ;I have collected a pretty good amount of relevant stuff.So,now I'll try to work myself up to adopt those ways to success.

I wish,I'll be able to bring a positive change and success in my life.
Oh God, help me with it!